Summary

  • Nicola's lack of validation and communication skills frustrate Meisha, who values clear communication and wants to move forward in their relationship.
  • Nicola's disrespectful behavior, such as dismissing Meisha's concerns and making offensive comments, shows a lack of value and respect for her.
  • Nicola's judgmental and controlling attitude, along with his conservative lifestyle, would likely cause major issues if Meisha were to marry him and introduce him to her daughters. It's best for her to end the romance and reconsider their relationship.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 6 has introduced a number of incompatible couples, including Meisha Johnson and Nicola Kanaan. Although Meisha had an eccentric introduction, she so far hasn't aired any major issues. However, her partner Nicola is much more problematic and has given her many reasons to dump him.

Meisha was introduced as an eccentric cast member in the extended 90 Day Fiancé franchise. The 34-year-old American mother used to work as a broadcast journalist until she had a religious conversion after claiming she saw signs from God. This led to her becoming a devout Catholic and meeting Israeli man Nicola online. The mismatched duo have now talked for seven years before Meisha came to visit Nicola in his home country. However, despite having connected for so long, Meisha and Nicola appear to be wildly incompatible on many levels. Meanwhile, Nicola also has a disrespectful streak.

8 Nicola Doesn’t Validate Meisha

Montage of 90 Day Fiancé’s Nicola

Though Meisha is actually three years younger than Nicola and they're both in their mid-40s, Nicola shows a shocking lack of communication skills for an adult. One of his biggest issues on Before the 90 Days season 6 is that he won’t validate his partner. Meisha is constantly talking to Nicola without him responding. This is very frustrating for her, as she values clear communication and wants to move forward in her relationship. However, Nicola refuses to work with her and continuously ignores her or writes off her concerns. Meisha needs a partner who is more mature and in touch with their feelings.

7 Nicola Disrespects Meisha

Combined image of Meisha and Nicola from 90 Day Fiance

Nicola exhibited more offensive behavior when he flat out disrespected Meisha on Before the 90 Days season 6 not just with negligence, but with clear rudeness. Nicola refused to speak with Meisha, while he also clearly disrespected her numerous times. For example, Nicola controversially told Meisha that she was most cute when she's mute. This totally dismissed and disrespected Meisha and demonstrated how little Nicola values her. Meisha should seriously reconsider her romance after such an obvious insult.

6 Nicola Dismisses Meisha

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Nicola has also dismissed Meisha multiple times on Before the 90 Days season 6. In one instance, Meisha happily played with a street cat. Nicola appeared disgusted by this move and asked her to stop. Nicola comes across as someone who only wants his agenda, as he's not very understanding when it comes to Meisha wanting to do her own thing. He was also quite dismissive when Meisha had concerns over her clothing and wanted to change, as Nicola refuses to consider things from her point of view.

5 Nicola Talks Down To Meisha

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The way Nicola talks to Meisha is definitely problematic, as he often speaks down to his partner during her trip on Before the 90 Days season 6. When Meisha was changing her clothing in his car, he became frustrated and rude. Nicola exhibits such an attitude to Meisha constantly, as he's often saying her name with an exasperated sigh and correcting her behavior. He appears to turn everything about Meisha into a complaint and doesn’t celebrate his partner or anything she's able to accomplish or bring to their romance.

4 Nicola Hid Meisha From His Family

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Furthermore, Nicola joins the list of 90 Day Fiancé cast members who concealed partners from their families. Meisha has been talking to Nicola for seven years and flew very far to see him. However, he neglected to tell his family she even exists. This is blatantly disrespectful and also problematic, as it means Nicola is hiding Meisha from his family. He plainly stated that he's afraid of how his family would react and therefore chose to keep their romance a secret. However, Meisha is a grown woman who has already been married. The last thing she needs is a hidden romance and being a secret girlfriend when she expects marriage.

3 Nicola Judges Meisha

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Though Meisha is a gorgeous and accomplished woman, Nicola often speaks down to her. Meisha hasn’t received a lot of acceptance during Before the 90 Days season 6. Nicola was openly judgmental when Meisha said she smokes a single cigarette a year and also enjoys dancing. Nicola considered her enjoying herself a sin. Fortunately, he did relent a bit on his judgmental mindset and accompanied Meisha to a club for some dancing. However, it’s clear Nicola lives a very reserved life and has a lot of judgment and expectations. Meisha can't live freely and be herself under his scrutiny.

2 Nicola Likely Won’t Embrace The U.S.

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Meisha should consider dumping Nicola during Before the 90 Days season 6, as their life in the U.S. would be a disaster. Nicola has only lived in Israel, while he shared that he has no money or work. Therefore, Meisha would likely be his sole provider in the U.S.

Nicola would probably be upset by things that are liberal, as he lives a sheltered and conservative life. Since he hasn’t even told his family he is dating anyone, it would come as a huge surprise to them if he said he was planning to move. This could lead to many issues with Meisha and Nicola’s family, since it’s difficult to imagine Nicola adjusting to life in the U.S. given how particular he is about things.

1 Nicola Will Isolate Meisha From Her Kids

Meisha could face major issues if she were to marry Nicola and introduce him to her daughters. During Meisha’s introduction on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 6, her daughters were already nervous about their mother’s romance and expressed mixed feelings about her getting serious with Nicola. Nicola has shown that he's rude, overbearing, and controlling when it comes to Meisha, even though he knows she's a Western woman. It’s likely that he would make many demands from Meisha’s daughters that would make them feel uncomfortable in their own home. Therefore, it’s best that Meisha ends her romance with Nicola and considers returning to a long-distance friendship rather than gambling on marriage.