Summary

  • Statler's obsession with sex and her disrespectful language towards Dempsey should make Dempsey reconsider their romance on 90 Day Fiancé.
  • Statler's consideration of seeing her ex behind Dempsey's back shows a lack of respect and loyalty, further highlighting the incompatibility between them.
  • Just the differences in the way Statler and Dempsey gave gifts, with Statler not putting much thought or effort into hers, reveals a lack of compatibility and consideration for each other.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 6 fan-favorite Dempsey Wilkinson might be picking up support, but she should reconsider her relationship with American Statler. Statler, 33, visited her British girlfriend Dempsey, age 28, in the UK for the first time. While the women share chemistry and had an initial spark, there are many reasons why Dempsey should reconsider her 90 Day Fiancé franchise romance.

As the only same-sex couple to appear on Before the 90 Days season 6, Statler and Dempsey did have a lot of people rooting for them from the start. Meanwhile, the women had fast chemistry when they met in person, including mutual attraction and adorable shared awkwardness. Unfortunately, this doesn’t appear to be enough to keep their budding romance afloat. Though there's a chance Statler and Dempsey do stay together after Before the 90 Days season 6, Dempsey should consider dumping Statler due to her many red flags and their overall incompatibilities.

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8 Statler Is Obsessed With Sex

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Statler showed many early red flags in Before the 90 Days season 6, as all of her conversations revolved around sex. In fact, the Texas native had a rather disastrous introduction due to her focus on it. Statler came across as sex-crazed, as she boasted about all of her hookups and categorized them as achievements. The American was proud to have had sex in public on numerous occasions, including when people unwillingly had to watch. This boastful attitude about sex was not a good look for Statler and should make Dempsey re-think their romance.

7 Statler Discussed Dempsey Disrespectfully

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Not only did Statler portray herself as sex-obsessed, but she was also disrespectful with her language when it came to talking about her girlfriend. Statler listed clear sexual expectations that she expected from Dempsey in Before the 90 Days season 6 during her private interviews. She bluntly stated that if Dempsey was boring in bed, she would dump her. Dempsey likely felt very uncomfortable to hear back this conversation as a viewer, as it made Statler seem creepy and demanding. Dempsey deserves to be with someone who fully respects her and wouldn't discuss her in a degrading way.

6 Statler Considered Seeing Her Ex

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Statler once again disrespected Dempsey on Before the 90 Days season 6 when she considered seeing her ex behind her back. Before she met Dempsey, Statler had her heart broken by a different woman from the UK. Her ex asked if she could meet up with her at the airport when Statler arrived. Statler entertained this idea and appeared interested in meeting up with her ex. This would have been entirely disrespectful, as she did not communicate this with Dempsey and would have done it behind her back.

5 Statler Didn’t Give A Thoughtful Gift

90 Day Fiancé Statler

The differences between Statler and Dempsey were emphasized when it came to their giving gifts. While both women had gifts for each other, the gifts were not equal in thought and effort. Since Statler loves insects, Dempsey went around Thailand and purchased insects for her. This demonstrated that she understood her partner and picked out something thoughtful that reflected her interests. On the other hand, Statler also bought an insect item for Dempsey because insects are her interest. Dempsey should pick a partner who puts the same thought and effort into gift giving that she does, as Statler thought of what she would want rather than what Dempsey would want.

4 Statler Pressured Dempsey For Sex

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Statler and Dempsey might've had a cute meeting on Before the 90 Days season 6, but things turned sour quickly. Statler made it clear in her interviews that sex is extremely important to her. On the other hand, Dempsey shared that she wanted to take things slow. However, they ended up having sex the first night. Dempsey revealed that she worried she wasn’t experienced enough for Statler. Therefore, she felt pressure to sleep with her to satisfy her. When partners feel comfortable with each other, they shouldn't have to leave their comfort zone out of fear of rejection.

3 Statler Sexualizes Dempsey Constantly

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Statler’s awkwardness might be endearing, but her language certainly isn’t. Statler’s one 90 Day Fiancé franchise cast member who constantly sexualizes their partner. From the moment they met, Statler has been commenting on Dempsey’s body. This included asking to see her butt and asking to shower with her. Dempsey often appears very uncomfortable with such blunt and sexualized requests. Since Dempsey does not seem to like being sexualized nonstop, it appears that Statler is not the right partner for her. Statler doesn’t seem to be aware of how uncomfortable she makes her partner feel with her crass language.

2 Statler Dislikes Dempsey’s Home

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While Statler and Dempsey have many reasons why they should break up due to how Statler behaves, there are also issues of general compatibility. Statler said she would move to the UK from Irving, Texas if things went well. However, she was displeased to discover that Dempsey lives in a very tiny home in a rural area, as things appeared smaller than she anticipated. Statler did not embrace this way of living and seemed uncomfortable and out of place. Dempsey should live with someone who wants to be in a similar area so she won’t have to change so much about her life.

1 Dempsey Isn’t Ready To Tell Her Dad

Finally, Dempsey should reconsider her 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 6 romance due to the obvious hesitation she feels in her gut. Dempsey spent a month in Thailand with her father, who is her best friend. However, she didn’t tell him about Statler. This is a massive sign that Dempsey is unsure about Statler and isn’t hopeful that they are going to work out. If Dempsey was hopeful about their future, she would have told her father. Dempsey should likely listen to her gut and move on from Statler before she gets attached.