90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star Mary Demasu-ay's going to leave Brandan DeNuccio heartbroken, even if they stay together after the finale and Tell-All. As the new 90DF couple on the block, Mary and Brandan have been making headlines due to their troubled relationship. The 23-year-olds, who met on a dating app, got together in person for the first time when Oregon resident Brandan went to Candoni. He stayed with Mary and got married to her. Brandan and Mary have a relationship full of red flags. They didn’t even let each other use the bathroom without disconnecting their video call, which is supposed to be on 24/7.

Brandan's revealed that he doesn’t mind Mary being clingy because of their similar backgrounds. Brandan and Mary’s exes cheated on them. This contributes to their insecurities and jealousy issues. Being on the phone all the time gives them the reassurance that they’re not doing anything that they shouldn’t be. However, Mary has shown that she uses the video calls to control Brandan. While she expects Brandan to be transparent about who he’s with and what he’s doing, she doesn’t do the same. However, Brandan is too naive to realize this.

8 Mary Suggested The Idea Of 24/7 Video Calls

Brandan and Mary spend every single hour, minute, and second on video calls. After Brandan met Mary on social media, they started to do the calls, “more and more and more.” Eventually, there was a mutual agreement that they'd be on the phone 24/7. As long as they have internet connections, Brandan and Mary do everything together virtually, including bathing and sleeping. However, it was Mary who suggested the idea of being, “on the phone, all the time 24/7.” She admitted, “I love Brandan and don’t want to lose him.”

7 Mary Got Brandan Fired From Multiple Jobs

Brandan and Mary had been dating for over two years before their 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way debut. However, they'd never met in person. Brandan confessed that a ticket to the Philippines is, “really freaking expensive” (it can cost $2000 for a round-trip flight). Brandan lives in an RV outside his godparents’ (Caitlyn and Ryan) house. He makes a living by doing odd jobs around their place.

This is why he gets to save the money he would have otherwise spent on rent. Brandan has worked many jobs in his life. He's been a deli clerk and delivery driver. Brandon's also bagged groceries and washed windows, but he’s lost three or four jobs because of Mary.

6 Mary Keeps An Eye On Brandan Even During Doctor Visits

Brandan’s workplaces couldn’t accommodate his being on the phone with Mary all the time instead of working. That doesn’t stop Mary from wanting to be on a call with Brandan when he goes out, be it for shopping or doctor’s appointments. Mary watches what Brandan does. She was very, “clingy “ in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way episode 1, Brandan had to visit the dentist, as he wanted to get his teeth cleaned before heading to the Philippines. “In Mary’s dreamworld, me interacting with another woman would never happen,” said Brandan. He revealed that Mary gets jealous when Brandan is at the grocery store interacting with an employee.

5 Mary Listens To Everything Brandan Discusses With His Family

Mary likes to stay on the video call even when Brandan's spending time with his family, perhaps so he doesn’t say anything negative about her to them. Mary also makes sure Brandan takes her side when his relatives criticize her. Mary prohibits Brandan from visiting his mother at her home, despite him having recently reconnected with her after she went into recovery for her drug addiction issues. Brandan’s mother has female roommates, whom Mary's clearly jealous of. Although she was fast asleep during the scene, Mary was on a video call when Brandan went fishing with his godparents. They questioned him about Mary’s intentions.

4 Mary Has Taken Over $60,000 From Brandan

Brandan had a considerable amount left in his savings account after working at his odd jobs before getting fired. However, Brandan spent all of it on Mary. Brandan had just $250 left in his bank account when he was preparing to fly to the Philippines. It was because Brandan had given Mary $60,000 during their relationship. Mary used the money to build a new house, where she was staying with her family before Brandan joined her there on the show.

3 Mary Kissed Brandan In Front Of Brother Despite Warnings

Mary and Brandan had a lot of pent-up sexual energy because of their long-distance relationship. It was natural that they wanted to kiss and hug each other when they met for the first time in person. However, prior to Mary going to the airport, she was warned by her grandparents to keep a safe distance from Brandan.

They asked Mary not to sleep with Brandan right away, and to make sure Brandan asked for their permission before he hugged and kissed her. Mary promised her elderly grandparents, but she went right ahead and kissed Brandan repeatedly as soon as she saw him. All the while, her brother kept watching the two. She disrespected her grandparents, who raised her, as well as her brother.

2 Mary Did Not Inform Brandan About Her House Rules

Mary didn’t know how Brandan would react to these rules, since they wouldn't be allowed to be intimate in any way until they got her grandparents’ approval. So, she decided not to tell Brandan about the rules. Mary claimed she was overwhelmed with emotions after seeing Brandan, and it was also her very first kiss, which he wanted to be from him. When Mary’s brother finally told Brandan that kissing wasn’t okay in the Philippines, the American man thought the rule was absurd. It’s interesting that Mary never thought of telling him this when they were dating for two years.

1 Mary Is Rumored To Be Pregnant. Did She Trap Brandan?

Warning!!!! The paragraph below contains possible spoilers!!!!

Mary and Brandan are now married. His mother spoiled their 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way storyline by posting pictures from the wedding ceremony in the Philippines on her Facebook on April 26, 2023. However, it's now rumored that Mary's pregnant. In case she is, Mary may find that Brandan will never leave her, since they’re having a baby together. It also suggests that Brandan and Mary enter a new chapter of their relationship. They may be navigating marriage and parenthood in a new 90 Day Fiancé spin-off for Mary, to reap the rewards of her new reality TV career.